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The First 5 Minutes
One of the most important times for your relationship each day, is that point in the day when, after you have
been seperated from each other by jobs and other responsibilities, you come back together. For most people this
happens after the commute from work to home. We call this the first 5 minutes. It is in those first 5 minutes
when you are reunited that you set the tone for the rest of the day and sometimes for several days to come.
There is a tendancy when we first see each other to dump the trials and tribulations of the day or to schedule
the evening, or to rant about the other drivers you encountered. While this information can be critical and
should be discussed, they are not more important than your relationship. I would challenge you to use those
first 5 minutes to touch, kiss each other. Let your spouse know how much you missed him or her and how glad
you are to be with them. Show each other some tendeness and let each other know that regardless of what has
happened during the day you are glad to be here with them in a place oflove. Use your first 5 minutes wisely
and you will see a difference. Try it, the results can be amazing.
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